Her: This sucks not being friends.... [16:16]

Me: Yeah, it sucks but what are we supposed to do?
It is clear I've come between you and your husband.
So what's more important to you? Your marriage or our friendship? [19:42]

Her: Obviously, my marriage. This is how I feel, I think we could be friends. But i don't think that's how you feel.... I was infatuated with you..... And I'm sorry... It wasn't you, but me ,because I came on to you when I knew it was wrong. I want to maintain a friendship with you. [19:59]
But I also care about our friendship. [20:04]

Me: I am not opposed to being your friend, in the least, but you cannot have both. I am sorry.
Especially if you want a marriage. There are issues within that relationship that I have either exposed or exacerbated which need to be addressed and resolved before we can resume anything resembling a friendship. [20:48]